About Us
Art for the
whole person
Missed the Boat was founded, essentially, when Mary Shaffer approached her friend Fr. Kyle Kowaczyk in 2016 to pitch her concept for a show. He said, “Mary, writing a musical is a ton of work. I don’t have the courage to start if I don’t know whether it will ever be seen by an audience. I’ll only write it if you promise to produce it.” So she promised!
Missed the Boat officially began with its world premiere of that very show, Catholic Young Adults: The Musical, in 2019. It was a smashing success, selling over 400 tickets to all six performances. We discovered that we had accidentally created something very special: it wasn’t just a theatre company. It was a Catholic theatre company: a community of serious-minded Catholics, who had received beautiful gifts from the Lord and were thrilled to use those gifts to create something amazing for the glory of God!
Since 2019, Missed the Boat Theatre has performed more shows, such as Moonshine Abbey, Sense and Sensibility, and even a highly requested second production of Catholic Young Adults: The Musical. We also host an annual benefit cabaret and provide classes and retreats for the benefit of our ever-growing community in the Twin Cities. In 2025, we expanded our season to include two mainstage productions– The Matchmaker and It’s a Wonderful Life: a Live Radio Play – AND hosted an inaugural New Works Festival.We look forward to continued growth and opportunities for faithful Catholics to create profound, joyous art!
Missed the Boat Theatre is a 501(c)3 nonprofit theatre company in St. Paul, Minnesota, founded by Fr. Kyle Kowalczyk and Mary Shaffer.
Veronica White, Community Member
“I originally auditioned in the hopes of finding Catholic community while doing something I loved, and I found that community and so much more: an opportunity to learn, to grow as a person, to support others, and be supported by amazing people.”
Our Mission
To foster vibrant, Catholic community by producing quality, artistic creations on the stage.
Our Vision
Missed the Boat Theatre is a place where Catholics can come together to make beautiful works on the stage for the glory of God. We specialize in, though are not limited to, writing and producing original shows. We desire that everyone who participates in one of our productions experiences the joy of Catholic community. We hope that everyone who sees one of our plays will experience the love we have for one another and for the Lord as well as the joy of amazing, beautiful, and meaningful theatre.
Our Core Values
CATHOLICITY
Our complete adherence to the Lord Jesus Christ fully realized in the Catholic Church is not accidental to who we are. Our faith forms our every desire and action. We do not do theatre in spite of our Catholicism, rather we do it because of our Catholicism. We seek to glorify God in all that we do.
COMMUNITY
Togetherness is more than a side effect of doing theatre. It’s a goal. We want to foster relationships that will build each other up and last long after the final curtain. We want to be a place where Catholic artists feel at home.
QUALITY
Art demands a certain level of professionalism. There are certain things, which if not done well, don’t rise to the level worthy of public display. Theatre is one of those things. If we can’t do something in a manner fitting to its subject and audience, it will be better not to do it at all.
CREATIVITY
Originality is not a virtue, but creativity is. Whereas we are not committed to doing new works, we certainly look for them, as this demands and encourages creativity. We don’t want to just do the same old thing. We want to do what has never been done before.
MEET THE STAFF
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Sam Vargo
EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR
Sam Vargo has a BS in Entertainment and Arts Management, Theatre concentration, from Drexel University (2015) and an MA in Catholic Studies from the University of St. Thomas (2022). She has over a decade of experience at professional theaters, including Swim Pony Performing Arts and Pig Iron Theatre Company in Philadelphia and Theater Latté Da and Artistry Theater & Visual Arts here in the Twin Cities. She has worked over the years as a director, stage manager, production manager, actor, dramaturg / co-creator, grant-writer, marketer, and more. She discovered Missed the Boat Theatre within a week of moving to the Twin Cities in fall 2019 and immediately discovered an artistic kinship and faith integration that has only grown as she has been part of the theater’s leadership ever since. In fall 2024, she transitioned into a full-time role as Executive Director, bringing her years of experience and formation to the helm of the theater as we pursue its next chapter.
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Fr. Kyle Kowalczyk
CO-FOUNDER, DIRECTOR OF MISSION
Fr. Kyle Kowalczyk is one of the co-founders of Missed the Boat Theatre and its Director of Mission. He fell in love with theatre his sophomore year of high school and wrote his first play his senior year. He would call theatre the “cause” of his first conversion, as it gave him an outlet for all his creative energy. He went on to major in Television Production with a minor in Theatre, and after graduating college received a certificate in writing from Act One, an intensive, Hollywood-based screenwriting program for Christians artists. This really formed his craft and ascetic taste for telling stories that are good, true and beautiful. While he was in seminary, he got a master’s in Catholic Studies and founded the St. Paul Seminary Theatre, producing, writing, directing, and acting in plays until he was ordained in 2016. He considers Missed the Boat his apostolate, and has been truly blessed to see how many devoutly Catholic artists have been impacted by this ministry. “When we do theatre, we are many parts but one body, giving a beautiful gift to our brothers and sisters, all for the greater glory of God!”
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Mary Shaffer
CO-FOUNDER, ARTISTIC DIRECTOR
Mary Shaffer is co-founder and Artistic Director of Missed the Boat Theatre. After graduating from St. Olaf College with a B.A. in Interdisciplinary Fine Arts with an Emphasis in Theatre, she went on to perform her senior capstone project, Departure: A One-Woman Play, at several venues including NET Lifeline. Having performed with local theatres such as the Zephyr Theatre (Witness for the Prosecution, The Secret Garden) and The Phipps Center for the Arts (A Shayna Maidel), Shaffer directed Missed the Boat's first three productions: Catholic Young Adults: The Musical (2019), Moonshine Abbey (2021), and Sense & Sensibility (2022). A Masters in Theology deepened her understanding of the connection between theatre and the mystery of the human person made in the image of God. Only at Missed the Boat has she found a place where she can freely encourage fellow theatre artists to live this mystery to the full.
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Erika Zabinski
BUSINESS ADMINISTRATOR
Erika Zabinski has been with MTBT since the very beginning in 2019. Her title has evolved as the theater has grown, but she’s still handling bookkeeping, contracts, and all things administrative. In a previous life, she collaborated with Fr. Kyle on the Saint Paul Seminary Theatre shows and worked in administrative roles for several local Catholic organizations, including the Archdiocese and the Saint Paul Seminary. She loves MTBT not just because theater is thrilling, but because MTBT is where nearly all of her most treasured personal friendships have started, bonded, and continue to deepen. There’s nothing quite like the camaraderie and vulnerability of theater for incubating serious friendship fast. When not at MTBT, Erika runs a book indexing business and loves naval history, cats and owls, and making you dinner.
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Ellie Wagner
MARKETING & COMMUNICATIONS DIRECTOR
Ellie Wagner serves as Marketing and Communications Director for Missed the Boat Theatre. When she was thirteen, her parents took her to her first play, The Taming of the Shrew, which opened up a whole new world of storytelling that she has loved ever since. In college, she acted and stage managed for productions, took acting and playwriting classes, and after college had the chance to teach theatre, art, and music at a classical school in Edina. She hopped ‘on board’ with Missed the Boat as costume designer for Sense and Sensibility, where she was humbled by the love and support the whole community gave her during and after the show, as she experienced an unexpectedly complicated pregnancy and recovery. She is passionate about introducing others to the beauty of this faith-nourishing community. Her background in English and publications makes her passionate about how God uses our words to invite us into deeper contemplation, both on and offstage.
Board of Directors
Lucas Kinzel, MBA - Chair
Matt Wilson, JD - Secretary
Erika Zabinski - Treasurer
Fr. Ben Wittnebel, Mdiv
Heather Buseman, CPA
Fr. Kyle Kowalczyk, CSMA
Mary Shaffer, MA