About Us
Who we are
Missed the Boat was founded, essentially, when Mary Shaffer approached her friend Fr. Kyle Kowalczyk in 2016 to pitch her concept for a show. He said, “Mary, writing a musical is a ton of work. I don’t have the courage to start if I don’t know whether it will ever be seen by an audience. I’ll only write it if you promise to produce it.” So she promised!
Missed the Boat officially began with its world premiere of that very show, Catholic Young Adults: The Musical, in 2019. It was a smashing success, selling over 400 tickets to all six performances. We discovered that we had accidentally created something very special: it wasn’t just a theatre company. It was a Catholic theatre company: a community of serious-minded Catholics, who had received beautiful gifts from the Lord and were thrilled to use those gifts to create something amazing for the glory of God!
After that first show, Missed the Boat Theatre formalized as a 501(c)3 tax-exempt nonprofit, based in St. Paul, Minnesota. Since 2019, Missed the Boat Theatre has performed shows such as Moonshine Abbey, Sense and Sensibility,and even a highly requested second production of Catholic Young Adults: The Musical. We also host an annual benefit cabaret and provide classes and retreats for the benefit of our ever-growing community in the Twin Cities. In 2025, we expanded our season to include two mainstage productions– The Matchmaker and It’s a Wonderful Life: a Live Radio Play –AND hosted an inaugural New Works Festival. We look forward to continued growth and opportunities for faithful Catholics to create profound, joyous art!
Steven Broszko, Community Member
“This organization definitely fills a need in the Church, and I am so glad that organizations like MTBT exist to bring Christ to the world through the performing arts. MTBT puts on high-quality, creative productions which are bold, fun, and through the lens of Catholicism. Keep it up!”
Our Mission
To foster vibrant, Catholic community by producing quality, artistic creations on the stage.
Our Vision
Missed the Boat Theatre is a place where Catholics can come together to make beautiful works on the stage for the glory of God. We specialize in, though are not limited to, writing and producing original shows. We desire that everyone who participates in one of our productions experiences the joy of Catholic community. We hope that everyone who sees one of our plays will experience the love we have for one another and for the Lord as well as the joy of amazing, beautiful, and meaningful theatre.
Our Core Values
CATHOLICITY
Our complete adherence to the Lord Jesus Christ fully realized in the Catholic Church is not accidental to who we are. Our faith forms our every desire and action. We do not do theatre in spite of our Catholicism, rather we do it because of our Catholicism. We seek to glorify God in all that we do.
COMMUNITY
Togetherness is more than a side effect of doing theatre. It’s a goal. We want to foster relationships that will build each other up and last long after the final curtain. We want to be a place where Catholic artists feel at home.
QUALITY
Art demands a certain level of professionalism. There are certain things, which if not done well, don’t rise to the level worthy of public display. Theatre is one of those things. If we can’t do something in a manner fitting to its subject and audience, it will be better not to do it at all.
CREATIVITY
Originality is not a virtue, but creativity is. Whereas we are not committed to doing new works, we certainly look for them, as this demands and encourages creativity. We don’t want to just do the same old thing. We want to do what has never been done before.
MEET THE STAFF
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Samantha Wend Vargo
EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR
Sam Vargo has a BS in Entertainment and Arts Management, Theatre concentration, from Drexel University (2015) and an MA in Catholic Studies from the University of St. Thomas (2022). She has over a decade of experience at professional theaters, including Swim Pony Performing Arts and Pig Iron Theatre Company in Philadelphia and Theater Latté Da and Artistry Theater & Visual Arts here in the Twin Cities. She has worked over the years as a director, stage manager, production manager, actor, dramaturg / co-creator, grant-writer, marketer, and more. She discovered Missed the Boat Theatre within a week of moving to the Twin Cities in fall 2019 and immediately discovered an artistic kinship and faith integration that has only grown as she has been part of the theater’s leadership ever since. In fall 2024, she transitioned into a full-time role as Executive Director, bringing her years of experience and formation to the helm of the theater as we pursue its next chapter.
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Fr. Kyle Kowalczyk
CO-FOUNDER, DIRECTOR OF MISSION
Fr. Kyle Kowalczyk is one of the co-founders of Missed the Boat Theatre and its Director of Mission. He fell in love with theatre his sophomore year of high school and wrote his first play his senior year. He would call theatre the “cause” of his first conversion, as it gave him an outlet for all his creative energy. He went on to major in Television Production with a minor in Theatre, and after graduating college received a certificate in writing from Act One, an intensive, Hollywood-based screenwriting program for Christians artists. This really formed his craft and ascetic taste for telling stories that are good, true and beautiful. While he was in seminary, he got a master’s in Catholic Studies and founded the St. Paul Seminary Theatre, producing, writing, directing, and acting in plays until he was ordained in 2016. He considers Missed the Boat his apostolate, and has been truly blessed to see how many devoutly Catholic artists have been impacted by this ministry. “When we do theatre, we are many parts but one body, giving a beautiful gift to our brothers and sisters, all for the greater glory of God!”
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Mary Shaffer
CO-FOUNDER, ARTISTIC DIRECTOR
Mary Shaffer is co-founder and Artistic Director of Missed the Boat Theatre. After graduating from St. Olaf College with a B.A. in Interdisciplinary Fine Arts with an Emphasis in Theatre, she went on to perform her senior capstone project, Departure: A One-Woman Play, at several venues including NET Lifeline. Having performed with local theatres such as the Zephyr Theatre (Witness for the Prosecution, The Secret Garden) and The Phipps Center for the Arts (A Shayna Maidel), Shaffer directed Missed the Boat's first three productions: Catholic Young Adults: The Musical (2019), Moonshine Abbey (2021), and Sense & Sensibility (2022). A Masters in Theology deepened her understanding of the connection between theatre and the mystery of the human person made in the image of God. Only at Missed the Boat has she found a place where she can freely encourage fellow theatre artists to live this mystery to the full.
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Ellie Wagner
MARKETING & COMMUNICATIONS DIRECTOR
Ellie Wagner serves as Marketing and Communications Director for Missed the Boat Theatre. When she was thirteen, her parents took her to her first play, The Taming of the Shrew, which opened up a whole new world of storytelling that she has loved ever since. In college, she spent a lot of hours in the theatre acting, stage managing, studying playwriting and acting, and after college had the chance to direct a staged reading of Lorraine Hansberry’s Les Blancs, and a one-act performance of Cyrano de Bergerac as fine arts teacher at a classical school in Edina. She hopped ‘on board’ with Missed the Boat as costume designer for Sense and Sensibility, where she was humbled by the love and support the whole community has for one another. She is passionate about introducing others to the beauty of this faith-nourishing community. Her background in English and publications makes her passionate about how God uses our words to invite us into deeper contemplation, both on and offstage.
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Veronica White
PRODUCTION & FACILITIES MANAGER
Veronica White is the Production and Facilities Manager for Missed The Boat Theatre. She was involved in theater as a kid, spending much of her time onstage in small community theaters, and after spending three years as a missionary and relocating to the Twin Cities, she discovered MTBT. She auditioned for CYA 2024 and was asked to serve as Stage Manager, to which she said, “Yes! …What does that mean?” Little did she know it would be the adventure she never expected! Having been involved in some way in every show since CYA 2024, as stage manager, actor, and production manager, she developed a love for the production process. She loves the intricacies of different departments working together, and being the one to help connect the dots behind the scenes that the audience never sees, creating the worlds of stories that touch hearts and minds. To combine Catholic community with beautiful art…that’s a mission she can get behind.
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Mary Agnes Ratelle
DEVELOPMENT & OPERATIONS MANAGER
Mary Agnes Ratelle is the Development and Operations Manager for Missed the Boat Theatre, operating fundraising efforts alongside the fabulous MTBT team and community members. Mary Agnes was part of MTBT from the beginning, performing in the ensemble of Catholic Young Adults: The Musical in 2019, but took a break shortly afterwards while she finished her B.A. in History and English/Creative Writing and pursued her M.A. in Art History, both at the University of St. Thomas. Completing her M.A. in 2022, Mary Agnes plunged into the museum field, where she worked in nearly every facet, including fundraising, grant writing, educational programming, exhibit design, and historical reenactment. In 2026, Mary Agnes made a much needed career pivot and joined the MTBT team, using the skills she cultivated in her last career to support its mission of glorifying God through art. An arts and humanities person at heart, Mary Agnes has always been fascinated by the narrative power of all forms of art and finding God’s voice speaking through it, aiding both the artist and the viewer in drawing closer to Him.
Board of Directors
Fr. Kyle Kowalczyk, President
Matt Wilson, Vice President
Lucas Kinzel, Treasurer
Ben Stefonowicz, Interim Secretary
Fr. Aric Aamodt
Mary Shaffer
Heather Buseman, Advisory Board Member